Spare the rod; spoil the child

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Sunday August 31st, 2025

12 Give yourselves to disciplined instruction; open your ears to tested knowledge.

13 Don’t be afraid to correct your young ones; a spanking won’t kill them.

14 A good spanking, in fact, might save them from something worse than death (Eternal hell).

If you love your children, you would not spare the rod when they err.

  • Eli’s children grew to become wayward and God held him accountable for not being firm enough with them, 1 Samuel 2:29 – 34 .
  • Conversely, God did not hesitate to bless Abraham because He was confident that the patriarch would command his children and household to keep His laws (Genesis 18:17-19).

The second law of thermodynamics says everything left to itself tends to disorder.

In the same vein, any child not strictly cautioned to behave properly will ultimately become spoilt.

I know using the rod on children is now considered child abuse in this generation;

however you must know that there is a difference between correcting a child in love and abusing a child

Proverbs 13:24 GNT

The rod is not just the cane; it connotes firm correction when children err.

You cannot be permissive with a child all the time and expect him/her to grow up with good morals.

God expects you to compel your children and entire household to serve Him (Genesis 18:19).

Don’t spare the rod.

Application – God expects you to command your children and household to uphold his statutes, as Abraham did.

Author – Bishop Enoch Adejare Adeboye; General Overseer of the RCCG

Posted by Naomie Joseph

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